Topic: Holiness
Series: Truly, Madly, Deeply
Title: True in Waiting
Text: Songs of Songs 4-5:1
Our views on love and sexual intimacy are often unavoidably influenced by the values of the world. Many might even think that the Christian faith has a restrictive or regressive view on love and sexual intimacy. But, in fact, the Scripture does celebrate love and sexual intimacy in the book of Song of Songs. What is God’s design for sex? How should God’s people view it?
General Questions:
- Did your family talk about sexuality? Where did you learn about sex?
- Do you find sex too sensitive or private a matter to be discussed in church? Why should we talk about sex in the church?
Perspective Questions:
- Why did God create sex? In your own words, describe God’s design for sex. How then does this look like in the lives of singles? How about married people?
- What are some challenges or common views in the world about sex that makes it difficult for you to obey God’s design?
Application Questions:
- What are some avenues or individuals where we can and should speak openly about sex? What is lacking in these relationships that stops you from doing so?
- Has the church been a good representation of God’s design for sex? What can we do to make sure we shine God’s glory in this area?
Pursuing holiness includes how we view and treat love and intimacy. Amidst the influence of worldly values, learn how the Scriptures celebrate love and sexual intimacy and how this helps us to be holy singles and married couples before God.
Series: Focus 2024 – Abide
Title: When Sin Came In
Text: Acts 5:1-8
The church is an imperfect community that is set apart for God. Yet our call to be holy is often threatened by the presence of sin within the community. How should we as a church respond to sin so that collectively, we remain holy before God?
General Questions:
- Describe fear as an emotion. How can this be reconciled with the idea of the fear of God?
Perspective Questions:
- Read Acts 1 – 4 (or 2:42-47 and 4:32-37). What are some characteristics of the early church? How is what Ananias and Sapphira did potentially damaging to the spiritual health and credibility of the community?
- “My sin affects you even if you are not aware of it.” Do you think this is true? Why? How does the personal sin of someone in the community affect the community at large? Give some examples.
- How can we reconcile removing sin from the community and welcoming sinners into it? How should our expectations of believers and non-believers differ?
Application Questions:
- Often, we can only help one another to be holy when we know what one another is struggling with. What hinders you from being open with your struggles to the faith community? How can you help one another to be vulnerable?
- Sin should be dealt with swiftly before it spreads to affect others in the community. How can we approach the sins of others without compromising on either grace or holiness?
Title: When God comes in
Passage: Exodus 19:10-25
There is a right kind of fear that we should have, which is essential to fulfilling God’s call to holiness. The God who came down to dwell among us is awesomely and perfectly holy. Therefore, approaching God is a very serious matter that must take place on God’s terms.
General Questions:
- What has been your views on holiness? From the sermon, what does it mean to be holy for God?
- God is a personal God, but He is also a holy God. How have Jesus bridged these two aspects of God?
- What is the relationship between abiding in Christ and having the right kind of fear for God?
Perspective Questions:
- Consider the concept of holiness and reverence shared in this sermon. How do they challenge your perspective on living as a Christ follower in the world today?
- How would approaching God’s presence with reverence in your daily lives impact your relationship with God?
Application Questions:
- What are the practical ways in which we can maintain a distinct Christian identity while actively engaging with those around us? How can this impact our witness to non-believers?
- What are the specific actions or changes you can make this coming week to be careful and serious in areas such as worship, devotions, tithing etc? How can your lifegroup journey with you and keep you accountable in these areas?
Series: Focus 2024
In 2024, as we abide in Christ, let’s focus on holiness and harvest.
Perspective Questions:
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As we review the resolutions we have made for the new year, how much of our resolutions have to do with growing in holiness?
Application Questions:
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What are some steps we can take to grow in holiness?
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By God’s grace, we are able to influence people beyond our generation, socio-economic status and ethnicity. What are some opportunities or platforms we can utilise to reach people who are different from us?
Come and hear what God has in store for our church & personal lives as we move forward to 2024.
Series: Hearts On Fire Focus Series 1
Title: Wanted: A Heart Broken Before God
Text: Psalm 51:1-19
Revival begins with holiness. God set our hearts on fire for Him by first purifying our hearts and bringing us to a place of brokenness and repentance.
General Questions:
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Do you consider yourself as someone who is quick to recognise and acknowledge sins in your life? Why do you think so?
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What is usually your first response when you are confronted with your sins? Do you make excuses for yourself and blame other people and circumstances like Saul, or do you take responsibility for your sins like David? What are reasons that we may respond like Saul instead of David?
Perspective Questions:
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When we seek God’s forgiveness, we know that we are cleansed by God and our relationship with God is restored. However, there are times when we do not feel like turning back to God. What are some reasons that may hinder a believer from turning to God?
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“God turns our scars into stars, our setbacks into comebacks, our misery into ministry, our test into testimony.” Does this quote resonate with you? When we are broken before God, we are not condemned but we receive God grace and restoration. What are the tell-tale signs of someone who feel condemned, instead of being restored by God? Why do you think it is important to seek renewal?
Application Questions:
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What are the ways that you can apply the sermon to experience the revival in your spiritual life? What are the specific areas that God is convicting you to turn away and come back to Him? What are the spiritual habits or routines that you practise to keep you sensitive to sin and root it out in your life?